The Way We Think.. And Our Traditions
I tried not to write a post about this issue but every moment in my life i still feel like I’m the one who ordered to say something about this case of our community, I don’t like this feeling but also i believe that these things should be changed because they affects on our productivity.
We have a great community and nice people, not all of them but the majority, and those people who is old or a young and who is a man or a woman, all of them had a lot of knowledge about life and how to live but they still keep their old traditions in their minds and they weren’t trying to get rid of them or at least to change them to be fit with the new age, these traditions affects on our life already and still keep us outside the track of the world and limit our thinking. They really knows the truth about their traditions but they wont change it, but damn why?
Here’s many traditions i wish god to help people to get rid of them:
- Commenting: People as we say are not like our fingers there’s the a tall and a short, also people like this, everyone has a special way that it not necessary to be like other ways, people speaks, wears and doing what they want! Nobody has the rights to comment on them because they are free and they know what they does, just let them to live and do not but yourself into their life.
- Don’t: I know thousands of “Don’t”s like : Don’t look at, Don’t say this, Don’t try that, Don’t go out, Don’t and Don’t and infinity number of DONT’S, but why usually say “Don’t” without any reason! but Why? Don’t ask, i feel that’s wrong! What? if this is your way to give me a piece of advice then go to hell with it.
- Your Way: Your way not the only way and it’s not correct always and your opinion is not always the correct one! we have our ways and you have your own so don’t compel us to take it as a track, and simply keep it for yourself.
- Emotional persuasion: I really hate this type of imposition of opinion on me, it’s exactly called “Embarrassment” and happens to me constantly and with my friends, read the following conversation between my friend and his father:
A conflict between my friend and his brother, the father in between:
Father:(Anger) Call your brother and apologize to him right now.
Friend: No Dad, I wont do this because this is his fault!
Father: (Lovely) Please son, call him now, do it for me I’m your lovely father right? If you love me call him now.
Friend: Dad, don’t speak like this please he should apologize to me and I’m not who should apologize to him.
Father: (Anger) You always like this, you don’t listen from me and you always do what your stupid mind tells you, he is your brother not an enemy… blab blab blab.
[ME] : (High Volume) Goodbye my friend i just can’t wait for any further minute because your father hurt my ears!
This father truly think that his sons are going to fight, but i know them, they can solve their problem by themselves and without any help.
This community is so awesome but it need to clean his old traditions and to replace it by modern ways to live through this era.
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